Oh, Behave!

The Kinky Salon Charter was created by the community and states our intention and our standards. We created it so that it would be super easy for newbies to understand how to behave at our events. Follow these simple do’s and don’ts and you’ll fit right in:

DO

Be creative about how you dress

Contribute when and where you can

State your boundaries

Play safely and consensually

Have sensible safe sex practices

Respect our space and each other

Clean up after yourself

DON’T

Linger unaccompanied in play spaces

Cruise aggressively (even if they are really cute)

Get too intoxicated

Take photographs

Gossip about what goes on here

THE LONG VERSION

DO

Be creative about how you dress

It’s not about having the most fabulous, over the top costume. Just express yourself in whatever form is right for you. If that means dressing down, that’s ok too (but please NEVER wears jeans, khaki or sportswear to Kinky Salon)

Contribute when and where you can

The Kinky Salon community is created through the efforts of everyone involved. If you want to volunteer at an event it’s easy- just sign up on the website. If you want to perform or have a creative offering, just email and let us know. We would love to hear from you.

State your boundaries

If someone makes you uncomfortable, for ANY reason, then you should let them know. That includes touching without asking, saying something that offends you, or even just looking at you in a way you don’t like. Be nice, be graceful, but be firm.

Play safely and consensually

Be clear about what your safe sex practices are, and never stick your finger up someone’s butt without asking first.

Respect our space and each other

Being respectful towards each other and our environment means that we can build an atmosphere of trust. So all you fuckers need to R.E.S.P.E.C.T- dig?

Clean up after yourself

Like, really people.

DON’T

Linger unaccompanied in play spaces

Please, please, please, don’t hang out on your own watching people! It makes them feel uncomfortable and it makes you look like a Wanky McJerkoff!!

Cruise aggressively (even if they are really cute)

Learn to know the difference between ‘playing hard to get’ and ‘get the fuck outta my face’. If you are given a hint, then take it. There is nothing more unattractive than desperation.

Get too intoxicated

Having a couple of drinks is fine, we are all grown ups here. But if you get shit-faced we will notice and we will kick you out.

Take photographs

We usually have a professional photographer here to capture your fabulous outfit, so keep your cameras AND your cellphones stashed for the duration.

Gossip about what goes on here

NEVER mention names or specific activities on any public blogs or message boards. What happens at Kinky Salon stays at Kinky Salon.

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