Kinky Salon is an event for couples and chaperoned singles only.
Couples don’t have to be male/female. Whatever floats your boat.
If you are single and want to come to Kinky Salon it’s easy. Just bring a friend (we call them your PAL). For details of how this works read on..
The PAL system
(Pervy Activity Liason)
Whether you are male or female, if you want to come to Kinky Salon without a date these rules apply:
- When you come to Kinky Salon you must bring a PAL with you
- You can’t PAL someone you don’t know. You must know them and trust them.
- Your PAL can be the same gender, the opposite gender or even a couple
- You are responsible for your PALs behavior and they are responsible for yours!
- If either of you violate the charter you will both be held responsible
- You must arrive together and we recommend leaving together
(Frequently Asked Stupid Questions)
I am a single guy. Can my PAL be another single guy?
YES! As long as you know and trust them, you can testify to their good character and agree to keep an eye on each other, your PAL can be either gender.
We are a couple and we have a single friend- can we bring them with us?
YES! Please do!
I am a single girl. Do I really need to bring a PAL?
YES! They can be another girl, a single guy or a couple.
I am a single guy. Am I welcome?
YES! As long as you are respectful, you have read and understand the Charter, you have a PAL who you know and trust with you, and you are not in street clothes you are welcome.
Can I meet someone online, arrive with them, and then go off and party?
NO! You must know your PAL, be able to testify to their good character, and trust them. To come to the event with someone you don’t know and trust is disrespectful to our community and compromises the safety of the space.
Can I make last minute plans, call my friend who is already there, and get them to meet me at the door and be my PAL
YES! As long as they can meet you at the door when you arrive
If I arrive 15 minutes before my PAL can I hang out at the party till they arrive?
YES! But we will ask you to stay in the lobby so that you are there when they arrive to check in.
Can I come with a group of three or more single PALs?
YES! As long as you all arrive together and all agree to keep an eye on each other.
Why do you recommend leaving together?
The ONLY reason you should leave without your PAL is if you trust them in your deepest heart of hearts to behave themselves. You don’t want to be held responsible for some random person’s late night drunken shenanigans! If your PAL leaves and your actions are even slightly dodgy, we will ask you to leave.
I have been coming to Kinky Salon for years. Can I come without a PAL?
NO. You will need to come with someone.
What happens if my PAL misbehaves?
First we will talk to them, and then we will find you and talk to you. If it is serious then they will be banned and you will get a warning. If you are not there, we will get your email address from your PAL and contact you after the event.
Will I get kicked out if my PAL misbehaves?
You might. It depends on the situation.
What if I am new in town, single and don’t know anyone?
Check out Openly and meet some people! But make sure you get to know them before you bring them to Kinky Salon as your PAL. Meeting people on the internet so you can get in to Kinky Salon can be problematic because you don’t know if you can trust them. You MUST know and trust your PAL.
If you have a stupid question for our F.A.S.Q, please feel free to shoot us an email. If it’s a good question, we’ll add it to this list!
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