80s VS 90s

Saturday April 25th

The PAL System
The Charter


Sign up now to take part in the very first Kinky Salon Booty Camp!
Each class stands on it’s own, so choose to either complete the course or just dip in where it piques your interest! At only $100 including entrance for you and your PAL to Kinky Salon (a $60 value) it’s a steal! Early bird special still available- sign up for the whole course for just $450!

The first class on May 9th will focus on SEX-POSITIVE CULTURE.
We’ll be looking at what ‘Sex Positive’ means to you, and how you can get the most from your experiences here. You’ll discover first hand how a sexually charged social environment can be both challenging and playful, and you’ll learn about navigating play spaces gracefully and how to get what you want!

We’ll also be welcoming our first guest speaker MARCIA BACZYNSKI (co-founder of Cuddle Party, director of Relationship Programming at Ideal Balance and general all around sexpert) to talk about the important (but rarely talked about) issue of safe sex in a group setting! What are the risks, and how do you make informed  judgment calls? How can you minimize risk while maximizing fun?

Click here for all the details

Kinky Salon, America’s most sacred and profane sex positive community presents

Holy Moly. Hell in a Handbasket

DATES: May 9th and May 23rd

DRESS: Priests, Nuns, Choirboys, Devils, Angels, Saints, Sinners, Adam and Eve, Lucifer, Serpents, Catholic School Girls, Jesus, Good and Evil, Heaven and Hell, Popes, Preachers, Friars, Priests, Witches, Joan of Arc, Crusaders, Knights of the Templar, Grand Inquisitor, Virgin Mary, Disciples, Satanists, Apocalyptic creatures, Secret Cults, Mary Magdalene, Lilith, Whore of Babylon, Jezebel, Moses, Noah, awwww crap- we’re all going to hell.

Latex Fashion School

Don’t miss this rare opportunity to learn how to make your own latex clothes from one of the best in the business!

Wednesday April 29th
Thursday April 30th 7-10pm
at Mission Control

For all the details click here

Mark your calendars- KS is the 2nd and 4th Sat of EVERY month!

Kinky Salon, America’s Most Nostalgic Sex-Positive Community presents…


Watch out Kinky Salon, Ding Dong will rock your panties right off. He was so awesome at the first event this month- we can’t wait for him to come back!

Returning to the decks once again for anothe
r glorious set- this time with a whiff of nostalgia!


The Fabulous Flying Fox aka Miz Margo
from Little Minsky’s– everyone’s favorite monthly burlesque show! 2nd Thurs of every month at Club Deluxe

The Sugarplum Elves!Those Vivacious Vixens of  Burlesque return to the Kinky Salon stage to win our hearts with choreographed cheescake and syrupy sass!

That’s right folks, we’ll be time-
warping back to the 80s with a classic Transylvanian extravaganza!


will be kickin it old school with his totally rad beatboxing. Must be seen to be believed!



So edgy- so modern. Fetish, Piercings, Latex, Corsets, Tank Girl, Neo Pagans, Anime, Industrial, BDSM Dungeons, Y2K, Millenium Fever, Ravers, Smileys, The Spice Girls, Pacifiers, Lycra, Puffer Vests, Candy Raves, Baggy, Emo, Techno, Grunge, The Internet, Lara Croft, 90210, platform shoes…and Glo Stick Poi…
AND 80s-
Break out your single white glove… New Wave, Goth, Rocky Horror, Flashdance, New Romantic, Mullets, 80s Prom Queen, Leg Warmers, Neon, Side Ponytails, MTV, Ra Ra Skirts, Feathered Hair, Spandex, Break Dancing Electric Boogaloo, Video Arcades, Crimped Hair Rubix Cubes, We are Devo and Roller Skates….

Click here for details of our dresscode rules


Sat April 25th
10pm-4am (ish)

Mission Control
2519 Mission Street,
San Francisco, 94110

21+ (we check IDs)
Couples and chaperoned singles
See here for details

BYO beer and wine ONLY

The P.A.L. system

(Pervy Activity Liason)

Whether you are male or female, if you want to come to Kinky Salon without a date these rules apply:

• When you come to Kinky Salon you must bring a PAL with you

• Your PAL can be the same gender, the opposite gender or even a couple

• You are responsible for your PALs behavior and they are responsible for yours!

• If either of you violate the charter you will both be held responsible

• You must arrive together and we recommend leaving together

Click here for the PAL FASQ

… and don’t forget!
Kinky Salon is a community dedicated to the safe and consensual exploration of sex-positive self-expression. We celebrate all forms of diversity and encourage all members and guests to equally uphold our communities Standards of behaviour. Please note that YOU are responsible for educating your guests as to the Standards of our community. ANYONE showing up inappropriately dressed, under-informed or with the wrong attitude is subject to be turned away at the door!

The Kinky Salon Charter was created by the community and states our intention and our standards. We created it so that it would be super easy for newbies to understand how to behave at our events. Follow these simple do’s and don’ts and you’ll fit right in:


Be creative about how you dress
Contribute when and where you can
State your boundaries
Play safely and consensually

Make sensible safe sex choices
Respect our space and each other
Clean up after yourself


Linger unaccompanied in play spaces
Cruise aggressively (even if they are really cute)
Get too intoxicated
Take photographs
Gossip about what goes on here

click here for the long version

We created OPENLY.US so that we can join together with other communities and create something that is larger than the sum of our parties.

Check it out and see what we’re all up to! It’s not just an online social networking tool- it’s designed to help people can meet in the real world too.